In 2012 I Will…{Updated}

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LOOK UNDER EACH GOAL TO SEE THE END OF THE YEAR UPDATE!

The past week has been all about people either embracing New Year’s Resolutions or saying they aren’t going to make them because no one ever keeps them.

I have been pondering these two options in my mind over the past week and trying to set my “goals” for the year.  I decided I am going to look at New Year’s Resolutions differently this year.  Instead of saying, “I am going to lose weight” or “I am going to exercise more”, I am going to make realistic statements about things I KNOW I am capable of doing that will lead to living a healthier lifestyle for my MIND, BODY, and SOUL.  If I can accomplish these things, I will get the end results I really want.  So, here they are.  In 2012 I will…

Run at least a 5K every other month

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If I can run at least a 5k every other month, I know I will exercise in order to train for the race.  That will keep me exercising.  I would LOVE to run a half marathon this year but I will NOT commit to that.  If I can get up to that, awesome.  If not, at least I can run a few 5k’s and maybe even a 10k this year!

UPDATE – I did not run a 5k every other month but I did run two half marathons, a 5k, and a 10k.  I would say I did pretty well on this one!

Think Good Thoughts About Myself

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No more negative self thoughts or talking.  If I start to think negatively about myself, I have to stop myself and say five nice things about myself.  If I start to think more positively, I will start to believe more positively.

UPDATE – I feel I did really well on this one.  I have re-framed my thinking to catch myself when I start to get down on myself.  Now, however, I have to be careful not to be too lenient on myself!  But..I am thinking much more positively so I am happy about that!

If I trip down a step, I will Not Throw Myself Down the Rest of them

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So many times in the past, I will make a bad choice and then throw the rest of the day week away.  If I eat something horrible for me, I tend to say, “Oh well, I have blown it now!  I might as well just start over next week because this week is blown!”  This year, when I make a mistake, I am not going to wait until the next week or even the next day.  I am going to get back on track the very next MINUTE.

UPDATE – I did not do too well on this one.  I am still trying to work on this and it is very difficult.  I would say that I am getting better but I still have work to do!

If I want a “Treat” or something unhealthy, I must wait 20 minutes before eating it.

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Some of you are thinking, “What in the world is she talking about?”  I have learned that if I DON’T give in to instant gratification, I will NOT give in at all.  If I can just wait it out, I don’t really want what I think I want.  So, this year, if I think I want to eat something unhealthy, I will literally set a timer for 20 minutes.  If after 20 minutes I still want the treat, I will eat it and count the Weight Watchers points plus of that item.

UPDATE – I failed miserably on this one.  I would either eat it or not but there wasn’t the mindful waiting 20 minutes like I said I would.

Visit a Church At Least Once a Month

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This one is not about weight loss but I think spiritually impacts all areas of life so that is why I am including it.  My husband and I have been trying to find a new church for a few years.  We have not been diligent about going every Sunday until we find one we like.  I would like to visit one church at least once a month until we find one that we can call “home.”

UPDATE – We did not go at least once a month but we did find a church that we can call “home.”  I will address that in our new goals because we want to get deeper into the church this year.  We are really excited about it.

Reach out More to the Blogging Community

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This year I will comment on more blog posts.  I am more of a blog “stalker” and don’t really comment too much.  On the other hand, I LOVE when people comment on mine.  This year I will be more conscious of making meaningful comments on blog posts that I read.

UPDATE – I have done more conscious commenting but I have also gotten more involved in Weight Loss groups on Facebook.  I didn’t plan on doing that but it turned out to be a great decision.  I have more meaningful comments on Facebook as well as on other weight loss blogs.  This one was a success!

There they are.  My “I will in 2012″ list.  I didn’t include the things I am already doing.  I won’t try to go to my Weight Watchers meetings every week because I already am.  I won’t try to drink more water because I already do.  I won’t take my vitamins every day because I already do.  I am going to focus on these things I find more difficult in hopes of being a more healthy overall person.

I will continue to make monthly goals.  You all know how I LOVE to make small, measurable goals.  Don’t you worry!

Did you make resolutions this year?  Do you plan to make goals for yourself?  If so, please share them with me.  I would love to hear what your plans are to make yourself a better person by the end of the year!

UPDATE – When I sat down to update my year, I thought it was going to be a big, fat, fail.  I didn’t realize how successful my year really was because I did not see a big decrease in weight.  I forgot what goals I had set and none of them were really weight related.  I feel more successful now and I feel more ready to take on the new year and make it to goal this year.

Sometimes when we look at the big picture, good things are there.  Don’t look at the one thing you did WRONG but all the little things you did right.  I had a great year but I am looking forward to an even better 2013!

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  • Mandi Blackburn

     Thank you! I wasn’t planning on making resolutions, because I have a hard time getting tangible goals for a long period, but this gave me some ideas, and I may have to do my own Goal List as a blog post this week

    • http://www.itsuxtobefat.com Jennifer Swafford

      I am so glad you found inspiration from this. Make some goals…even small ones!

  • Anonymous

    Those are good goals!  I may join you with the 5k one.  I’ve been saying I want to run a marathon before I’m 50 (that’s THIS December) but with my knees I may have to scale that one back.

    • http://www.itsuxtobefat.com Jennifer Swafford

      YES! Do the 5k goal. You could even do a half marathon walking too! You can do it! Look at all those people on the Biggest Loser. They did a full marathon and that one man was in his 60′s!

  • Karen Kraeger

    Love you goals for 2012!  Here’s a possibility to shoot for-a half marathon in Key West.  Every year at the end of January, there’s a “Half Shell Half Marathon”.  The weather is great, the course is mostly flat (EASIER!) and what a treat to plan for! :)  I’ve run it twice and loved every minute of it!  Plenty of people run/walk it too, so don’t rule it out if you think you can’t run the whole thing.  You can do it!  Next January, Key West here you come!

    • http://www.itsuxtobefat.com Jennifer Swafford

      Awesome idea, Karen! And…I would love to go to Key West in January. That sounds awesome! I had no idea you did that. Way to go!

  • Karen Kraeger

    Loved your goals for 2012!  Here’s an idea for you-a half marathon in Key West.  Every year in late January, there’s a “Half Shell Half Marathon.”  Great weather, nice course (no hills!), and what a great training incentive-a trip to Key West!  I’ve run it twice and loved it!  Lots of people run/walk it too, so don’t be scared off if you think you can’t run the whole thing.  Think about it…

  • http://twitter.com/Neska1981 Vanessa Bird

    I am currently writing my 12 things to do in 2012 (see what I did there) and this has certainly given me some inspiration on what to include.  I think I am going to pinch your idea of becoming more involed in the blogging community… I am a stalker of many, but almost never post any comments even if I have something to say. 
    So think of this comment as my tentative steps to becoming ‘involved’ lol.
    Happy New Year, and thanks for such an entertaining blog!

    • http://www.itsuxtobefat.com Jennifer Swafford

      I love it…12 things in 2012. So cute! Thank you for commenting…it means so much!

  • http://www.fatlittlelegs.com/ Sarah @ FatLittleLegs

    Great goals!  I know you will succeed.  Since one of your goals was to comment more on blogs, and you mentioned you liked getting comments, I thought I would leave one for you, since I’m mostly a blog stalker too!

    • http://www.itsuxtobefat.com Jennifer Swafford

      Thank you, Sarah! I do love getting comments. It helps me to know people are actually out there reading!

  • Katie Hood-Weber

    Good job making a resolution list that is actually attainable!  I love that.  I hate hearing people just talk about resolutions without thinking of how they are going to change their lifestyle to do them.  This is very thoughtful and I respect that.  And thanks for being a WW inspiration!
    If you’re interested, here’s our blog: http://www.thehood-webers.blogspot.com

    • http://www.itsuxtobefat.com Jennifer Swafford

      Thanks Katie! I will check it out!

  • Alan Van

    I agree with your point on the weight loss but I think spiritually impacts!

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  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Candi-Lewis-Kidd/569392343 Candi Lewis Kidd

    I just found your blog and I think you’re so funny!  I called my twin sister and told her about your bank story and we both died laughing!!  i can’t believe someone asked that!  I love your goals. I just set the timer for 20 minutes… turns out i really didnt want a late night treat!!  

    Ive been doing ww so this blog is going to be so helpful!!  I’ve lost 51 lbs (i gained 56 lbs with my pregnancy)

    • http://www.itsuxtobefat.com Jennifer Swafford

      Thank you Candi! Wasn’t she bold in asking that?!? I am so glad she did though so I could try and figure it out! 51 lbs is amazing! I am so glad you found me! Rock on!

  • http://twitter.com/UncommonWine Carrie

    I love this! Realistic is the way to go. I wrote a similar post. Instead of making resolutions, I’m adding things back into my life that make me happy. ;-) Resolutions are fine. It’s just that so many people make them so vague (like lose weight, workout more, be a better person, etc.), that it’s difficult to know when you’ve achieved them. They need to be measurable. In essence, they need to be goals. Cheers to your success in 2013!

  • http://twitter.com/PrayersNApples PrayersNApples

    what a fun twist on the normal resolutions posts! :) LOVED the one about “if i trip down one stair, i won’t throw myself down the rest”.. i think that’s a big one for everyone (i know it is for me!).. i’m new to the blogging world, so i share your one about reaching out to the community ♥ i’m really enjoying reading your posts and looking fwd to exploring the site more! :)

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